Lover Stalker Killer: This is a true crime documentary on Netflix now, which speaks to one of the more bizarre love triangles which took place in Nebraska in 2012. It begins with an auto mechanic (Dave Kroupa) going on the Plenty of Fish app, and matching with a woman Liz Golyar and after a brief time together, he ended it. Golyar was not pleased but he moved on, and later matched with and met Cari Farver. They seemed to hit it off. Then all of a sudden Cari broke things off and basically disappeared, only communicating through text and email. Meanwhile, Dave was still dealing with the aftermath of Golyar.

This is a sobering tale as it unfolds, and shows just how diabolical people can be, going to extreme lengths to be exacting their revenge. Thank goodness that there was this team of police officers who were able to do some serious digging into the details of the online texts and emails that had been exchanged. Without the technology it likely would have remained a mystery. I won’t go into the details because it is very interesting to see what happens and the end result. Typically it is not a woman who is a killer, but there are those Alex Forest characters (from Fatal Attraction) that seem to take rejection never negatively and become unhinged. This was an interesting watch.
True Detective: North Country: I finished this series last night. I am hard pressed to remember whether I watched the original series with Woody Harrelson and Matthew McConaughey, but having re-watched some of the earlier episodes in the first season, I clearly had. Funny that the resolution didn’t stick with me. But McConaughey being the very smart, reclusive ex-cop speaking about the work he did on the case was something I hadn’t forgotten. This latest series with Jodie Foster and Kali Rice there are some bizarre killings that have taken place, and these two police officers are looking to solve the mystery. It takes plenty of time to set the scene with a high tech lab on the outskirts of a small Alaskan town has a very strange occurence involving the scientists there. The locals who tolerate the lab as a source of income, generally do not like the impact it is having on the locals. People are sick, there are more than usual still births etc.

In this final epsiode, it all comes together, and I won’t delve into the details. There is much made about getting access to these caves, in and around the area, which finally is explained. Is it satisfying? Was it worth the time commitment? I am not sure. This overall was a Meh for me. The relationship between the two police officers is complex, and has its own history, along with their relationship with the town, the people and their relations (sisters, family, daughters etc). There is a spritual aspect of the story that Navarro (Rice’s character) accepts but is rejected completely by Foster. The scenes are cold, with plenty of wind and storms that make you feel the cold and how remote these places really are. I have no interest being here in the days when there is no sun. The first season of this series is very well reviewed and thought of even ten years later. This may prompt me to watch the other serasons, because each of them has very good Grade A actors in them.
Love is Blind Season 6: The first six epsiodes of the latest Love is Blind has been released on Netflix. Hosted by Nick and Vanessa Lachey, they put together young men and women in this experiment where they don’t ever get to see the other person until after one has proposed and the other has accepted. They speak to each other in opaque pods, with couches and snacks where they can have “dates” with each other. Only after a proposal do they see one another and see if their emotional connection will translate into a physical and overall connection that can lead to marriage. Marriage remains the goal. These types of shows are mind candy for me. They are innocent and mindless shows to watch for their shock value. I always find the dynamics of a couple and relationships to be fun people watching. These are young people who know what they are getting into when they sign on. They want to be married, or they want their 15 mins of fame on TV (you can spot those pretty clearly) but they are willing to put themselves on full display for the world (flaws and all) in the context of this experiment.

Post the First Meet, then the couples are whisked away in a pre-marriage beach vacation where they can mingle with other contestants (they had never seen the opposite sex contestants) and then see what transpires. Of course there is drama! One of the many artifical realities of the show is when one contestant can have two people vying for their affections and proposing to them with hours of each other! How often does that occur in real life!? Even more strange is that the two people vying for the one are aware of the situation and have no animosity for the other suitor whatsoever. That is at least mature, but one wonders whether if it was truly the “real match” by definition there wouldn’t be any second suitor. The parties can of course get all emotional, and profess undying love for a soul mate that they have never laid eyes on. It’s all in fun, until the tears start flowing, and for some they are flowing all the time. Others try hard to manufacture tears but they just don’t come (you’ll spot those too quite easily) as they have never found a camera that they didn’t love! The second half of this drops later this week, when of course those who were closely rejected in the first round (missing the tropical trip) get re-introduced to the group to provide more challenges for the young couples. Watch at your own discretion (and peril!!).



