I am so very sorry to read the shocking news from last night that acclaimed actor, director Rob Reiner (78 years old) and his wife Michelle were murdered in their Los Angeles (Brentwood) home last night. Reiner was “Meathead” in All in the Family as an actor, and he was the director of such films as This is Spinal Tap (sequel coming shortly) and other classic movies like Stand By Me, Princess Bride, When Harry Met Sally, Misery and A Few Good Men. They together leave behind three children. Rob had a daughter with first wife Penny Marshall. What a senseless tragedy.

Train Dreams: This is a new release on Netflix, and stars Joel Edgerton, Felicity Jones, William H Macy and Kerry Condon. It is an impressive cast. I had heard a positive buzz about it as well so I wanted to see this. Sadly I was disappointed. Set in the northwest of the United States at the end of the 1800s, when the Spokane International Railway was being built. Edgerton plays ordinary labourer Robert Grainier who keeps mostly to himself, being mostly a loner, having some modest skills with carpentry as well as logging. He meets Jones playing Gladys and his world turns into a marvelous life with purpose. He finds a plot of land, and starts building his dream life with his dream girl. A daughter comes shortly thereafter. Gladys and daughter stay behind while Robert works logging, which is hard work in difficult circumstances. It is also dangerous work with little regard for safety, but rather a focus on building the line as fast as they can.

On the work site, Robert meets up with elder demolition man William H Macy (Macy blows up trees and makes way for tunnels). He has been in his role for many years and doesn’t do the backbreaking work any longer. He is too valuable and old. The two men speak of life and simple pleasures. Things happen both at the job site and to the family that I won’t detail here. Suffice to say that Robert has some hard knocks delivered to him.
Somewhere in this movie about a simple guy doing ordinary things there are much deeper life lessons. Okay. It is like me thinking about the average soldier at a castle in Europe and how he would be feeling guarding a wall, and looking out into the black for night after night, week after week. He isn’t anyone famous, nor part of any battles of note. He does his work, he takes his shift and returns to his life. This is Robert. The story is a glimpse back in time, and one of the messages I take away is that I was glad that I was born in this time rather than that. Robert lived a difficult life, exhausting and what did he get for it? Yes, as the title suggests he has some dreams, but these can act as fillers to potentially show what may have happened in circumstances where Robert simply is in no position to know. It was slow and when it ended I thought, “is that it?” And it was. Having said that, there are some very pretty pictures with quality cinematography. The forest, trees, skies and sunsets are lovely. I am unclear what lesson was gained by having the Kerry Condon character meet up with him. I did not come away from this thinking that this is one of the best films of the year. I have seen a couple recently, and this one wasn’t it.
Sorry Baby: Eva Victor directs, stars and wrote the screenplay for this movie which can be found on Appletv. It was listed in both the NY Times and Rolling Stones lists of Best Pictures for 2025. I wanted to seek it out given all the positive buzz with it. If a movie is meant to be springboard to thinking about the ideas and issues presented, I can say that this is ably accomplished. I had a couple good conversations about overall theme and individual scenes within it. Separated by chapters which are entitled with the phrase “The Year of [insert the notable event]” where the opening scene is The Year of the Baby. Further chapters are entitled “The Year When The Bad Thing Happened,” “The Year with the Questions,” and “The Year of the Good Sandwich”. We have two friends in their mid-twenties meet up to catch up on their lives. One is Eva Victor (playing Agnes) and her buddy Lydie (played by Naomi Ackie). In seemingly rural New England in a university town where Agnes lives and works they meet at her house. It is evident that they are very connected and close. The next chapter begins a series of events which happen prior to the Year of the Baby.

I won’t go further into the events that become the turning point for Agnes. What transpires is a thought-provoking review of the issues surrounding these events. It includes discussions at the university where two female members in the HR Department pay Agnes a visit. Another scene involves an awkward discussion from a doctor, and later a scene during a Jury Duty interview where Agnes had attended. There are some funny moments and lines, bordering on black comedy. It can lighten an otherwise heavy subject. For the jury duty in front of a judge and prosecutor, Agnes makes salient points reflecting her wishes and most desired outcome which isn’t how our system of justice set up at all. What can seem as an innocent encounter can turn into something very unexpected having long term consequences.
For me, I found Agnes to be a socially awkward person, who with most people seems to keep to herself, looking away and not fully engaging. It is true that we first see her with her friend post the Bad Thing, and we did not see a lot of her before it. But we also see that she does move forward, certainly in her career on the university faculty, but also in relationships (notably the almost equally awkward neighbour Gavin, played by Lucas Hedges). Clearly the event has had tremendous effect on her, as she can run from hyper-ventilating and being extremely anxious to showing her capably working in her classroom full of students, where she is provided with excellent feedback. Overall the issue at hand is well handled showing a real-life, authentic realistic portrayal, and while everyone would experience this differently, sadly it will be experienced by far too many people. Watching it, I took it all in but it was upon more reflection and discussion that I liked it more. Certainly all parents would like to protect their children from all the bad things within the world, but this is simply not possible. For me I have not experienced such circumstances but I know plenty of people that have admitted it to me that they have. It is a surprising greater number than I would have ever expected. This is worth seeking out, and certainly young women should see the murky waters that can be explored. Having said that, I don’t feel that this movie is on the same level as other recent more compelling stories including Hamnet, Sentimental Value, or One Batter After Another. For me those are the front runners.
2000 Meters to Andriivka: This PBS Frontline Special documentary was brought to my attention from a friend. I thoroughly enjoyed it as it was powerful and provided me with insight into a war that has been mostly ignored from a media perspective. Politicians like to discuss cease fires and find a way to end the conflict by imposing plans onto the Ukrainian people without paying attention to those on the front lines in the battles. This film is a small group following a group of Ukrainian soliders from 2023 looking to make a counter-offensive to regain some territory that the Russians had taken previously. It is a strip of forest in a larger field entering into a small town which has been almost entirely obliterated. Fighting is intense, and as the young soliders say they don’t talk about time, they talk in meters to the target. The language is salty, for these young volunteers. The battle utilizes machine guns and grenades offensively against mines, tunnels, machine guns and mortars (along with the occasional suicide drone strike).

The young men are brave, and adament that they will defeat the Russian invaders. When they get an opportunity to face them, they are quick to ask Russian soldiers “why are you even here”? Back in the 1970s, the Viet Nam War was on TV all the time, with casualty and injured statistics on both sides. This war, despite all the technology and internet, there is very little coverage of action. No reporters with cameras, no Life Magazine colour spreads at all. It is important in my mind to remember that ordinary citizens put their lives on the line in this conflict. People are dying, towns and infrastructure are destroyed, and for no reason. For lines on a map or the political leaders’ agenda on his own legacy. I have utmost respect for those that fight for their land, identity and families. It is evident that they are fierce fighters and won’t be going away anytime soon. I especially feel for mothers and families that are burying their sons, husbands, and fathers. There was an interview with a man in tunnel taking shelter and he is 46yo, with a wife, children and grandchildren. 46yo men were not fighting in WWII. Not on the front lines that I have ever seen (nor as evidenced by tombstones in various cemeteries). So this is must watch TV for those who want to inform themselves of this conflict and humanize it. No matter what the result I don’t forsee peace in the region if ANY of the Ukranian territory is given back over to Russia because of their unprovoked assault on a soverign nation.
Here is the link to the broadcast: https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/frontline/documentary/2000-meters-to-andriivka/































